Hangin’ at the bar with #2

Hard to believe that here I sit with my 6th grader, who is telling me about the PowerPoint he had to do (hated) on the Joseph Kony (pronounced ‘coin’ he said), the leader of the LRA, the Lord’s Resistance Army in Uganda. The project was a chronology of the kidnapped boys lives. As dad, hard to decide between smiles and choking up about the kids dutiful acceptance of our travels together, and how far they’ve come with their own reflections.

Tomorrow? #2 joins soccer team with local Zambian kids. Yes, he’s a tad nervous.

Kampot Pepper, from Kep Cambodia (you’ll never look at pepper the same way again)

On a boring day in Kep, Cambodia we heard there was an organic pepper farm a short tuk-tuk ride away. It was run by some folks who spoke French.  Voila! A new opportunity.

After many technical difficulties, Nicholas translated and subtitled it on Youtube manually, so this was a month or so ago.

It was a terrific and fun day for all.  You’ll never look at pepper the same way again.

(Hint: change your Youtube to setting on the bottom to CC, to display English subtitles)

You don’t have to be great to get started. But you have to get started to be great. -Les Brown

Les Brown is considered one of the top 5 public speakers in the world. In 5th grade, Les was told by his teacher he was an idiot and would never amount to anything!

Takeaway: Your success is not defined by the narrative from others mouths, but by the truth in your own heart and mind. As I’ve told you, because people say it does not mean it’s worth listening to. Turn nonsense into motivation.

Epilogue: “ASIA”.

So much eye opening perspective gained from immersing in “Asia.”  Indonesia, Japan, China, Vietnam, Singapore, Thailand, Laos, Cambodia and Myanmar. Was a real shock to slowly shed the embedded Western teachings of what is “Asia”, as portrayed in film and myth. And the possibility that “‘Asia”, like “Africa”, could be a simple monolithic concept.
Alexander often remarks as we walk out at night, takes a deep inhale and says with a sly knowing smile, “Ahhh…I love the smell of Bangkok at night! It’s not Yangon or Hanoi or Xi’an…but distinctly Bangkok.”
After 8 months we are now moving on from  Asia, and arriving in Africa for 3 months. This means, in horse racing parlance, the horses are rounding the far turn and headed for home. Just typing that makes me tear a bit, reminded of how close we have become as a family on a quest.

Today we arrive on the African Continent (No, Africa is also not a country), it’s a diverse landscape made up of over 50 counties, hundreds and hundreds of tribes, and a like amount of languages. It is overwhelming to think of the sheer vastness in both landmass (Mercator maps, ugh) and ponder the origin of original humans and how homo sapien life began here.

 We have been so fortunate to previously visit African countries as safari guest or for business projects, but to come purely as observer is a real treat. Today I luckily recieved a timely post from a friend met years ago in Zambia on a business visit. Just before our plane left HK, I got to peer in on the unvarnished observations of my buddy Erik Bashi Fzxemi Mulenga,  “the Mule”, and his African mates. Amongst his African buddies on FB, they were lamenting the fact that there is a statue of Doctor Livingstone at the Zambia/Zimbabawe border touting  his “discovery” of the mighty Victoria Falls. And how there’s no statue for the local tribes people who clearly led him there, or the millions of “discoverers” for millennia before him.”
But the comments:
“He discovered it for his friends and family back in England and not for Tonga, African people who were living there and called it mosi o tunya. And we,today, take away the power of that name every time we call it V…”

“And if that’s not even enough, there’s a monument of David Livingstone alone & nothing has been erected for the people who guided him to the falls.”

“Every important event in history, had something to do with our white fellas…”
“What of the people who were staying there? Were they blind to notice the whole lot of the falls but only to wait for that guy to come and show them?”
“That time is now when Lumumba said “Africans will write their own history”…
And that which struck most:
“So sad, subliminally this is what makes us feel inferior.”
Time to adjust the compass, both physical and moral, once again.
One never knows when, or if, we will ever be lucky enough to return to these far off places. I am reminded again why we as a family do what we do, with wide eyes and open minds. Grateful. Humble. Inspired.
Buckle up…we’re going in Mav.

Unexpected Gifts

While I was in Siem Reap, Cambodia this week there was an enterprising young man painting Vans and Converse in a little room the hotel manager gave him to ply his craft. Given that a good job is $300 to 400 a month there, people try any work just to eat.  So I’m chattering with the boy, ironically named  Con, about what he can paint…”well…anything”, came the reply!

So I pulled up pictures of the cryptokitties Stacia bought this week (she’s exploring the site and usage to understand the crypto uses better) and VOILA!
OF COURSE HE CAN PAINT THEM…and anyone that sees them LOVES them…
At 40 bucks a pair, I bet people in the US would pay a lot more for these for little Sienna and little Sierra…and for a good cause?  Cambodian education and fighting human trafficking?
Cryptokitties…for the good of mankind…who knew?
Like mother, like Annika!

Rule of engagement

How does one recognize the place of humble abundance from which we come, but not ascribe to the world of pure charity donation which is simply wrong?

In our travels in rural Asia and Africa: whether taxi or vendor, negotiate like the devil, agree to the new price…then pay them their original asking price. Works every time…

The massive smiles are priceless.